If you are looking at someone and observing their actions, trying to understand their motives without a clue about why they do what they do. You just think that certain people should know better they should be doing better. The truth is that every time you should someone you make a judgment. This means the wrong that you attribute to them actually belongs to you.
Based upon what you may or may not know you make a judgment. You think that you are superior and that you have the right to determine what must be done, and how it must be done. A judgment is a means of control. You are trying to get people to do what you want or need so that you can feel better about yourself. It is really a sign of fear. It is the discontent that you feel within.
We each have our own set of lessons to learn and we take a different path to our lessons. Become accepting of yourself and others. Just let others be who they are and you be who you are.
